Rehabs Addressing Marital Issues
Substance abuse causes many problems in a marriage. In fact, according to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, besides the substance abuser, the spouse or partner of the abuser is often the one affected the greatest. This is because substance abuse and relationships do not go well together. Substance abuse often causes one to neglect their family, job and other responsibilities. It can also cause financial problems in a household, as the abuser uses money to buy drugs instead of paying bills.x
The Necessity of Treatment
A person’s addiction will not suddenly go away on its own. If left untreated, it will only get worse. The abuser may start getting in trouble with the law. They may cause a car accident and injure or even kill someone else. They may have blackouts and not remember things that happened. Their perception of reality becomes distorted and their job performance will likely suffer.
Codependency is common in a relationship. According to the website For Your Marriage, spouses who are codependent try to fix everything wrong in their relationships. They will try to handle their spouse’s substance abuse problems on their own. They do this in order to keep the family together and survive. However, instead of saving their spouses from drugs or alcohol, they need to focus on helping themselves. A support group can help them become more assertive, improve their communication skills and teach them coping skills so they stop living in denial about their spouse’s substance abuse.
Signs That the Marriage Is Suffering
When drug or alcohol use continues to cause problems in a marriage, treatment is needed before the problem gets out of hand and the marriage results in divorce. Here are some signs that an intervention is needed, according to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy:
- Frequent arguments about substance abuse, money issues or neglecting responsibilities
- Having to lie or cover up your spouse’s substance abuse
- Constant need for the abuser to be drunk or high in order to discuss the marriage problems
- The abuser uses drugs or alcohol to relieve stress.
- Domestic violence when the spouse is drunk or high
- Isolation from friends and family
*Where to Go for Help With Your Spouse’s Addiction
It can be hard dealing with the effects of your spouse’s drug use. There are plenty of options for your spouse to get the recovery help they needs, but what about you? Where can you get help so you can effectively handle the emotional effects of your loved one’s drug abuse? Here are some options:
- Couples therapy
- A trusted friend you can confide in
- Marriage/substance abuse counselor
- A group for couples to share their marital problems (for example, The Third Option)
Rehab Centers That Address Marital Issues
Marriage and substance abuse do not mix. If your spouse continues to use drugs or alcohol, the problems in your marriage will only get worse. Substance abuse affects not only the user, but everyone else in their life as well, including spouses, children and other family members. Help your spouse get on the track to recovery today. We can help you. Give us a call and we can assist you with the many options available, including support groups and couples therapy that can help you understand what your spouse is going through.
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